My son has ADHD, anxiety, speech motor disorder, and 2-dimensional visual processing issues (think something like dyslexia, but instead of a symbol he looks at getting "scrambled" on its way into his brain, it makes it in fine but then gets "scrambled" on its way out, when he tries to draw that same shape with his own pencil), balance issues, fine motor tremors, and social skills issues (like aspects of asperger's). Some have said that their kids do great on some parts of tests and terribly on other parts rings completely true with us. My son's deficits don't fit any pattern to easily define/classify him within the world of OT, social differences, familiar big LDs etc. It seems like that old arcade game where you have to bash the monsters or frogs with the mallets, but all we have are symptoms to bash, not a neat classification or something that could help us predict what could pop up next.
These are true stories and messages from moms I have received since I began this journey researching DG in 2008. Sadly I didn't start foldering the messages til 2012 but please see that many are in the same boat as you-confused and with many questions. The post is not to answer these questions specifically but to post to record the issues and questions for the public.